
If you joined real estate to make a quick buck without any marketing skills, you’ve by now, realized your mistake.
Nearly every realtor uses cold outbound to generate leads.
On one hand, everyone wants to make money. On the other hand, absolutely no one wants to spend their Tuesday cold-calling a list of expired listings who have already been harassed by twelve other real estate agents before breakfast.
The dream for most agents is to generate enough inbound leads that they don't need to chase homeowners anymore.
There is a comforting lie circulating in the brokerage world right now. It goes like this: "It’s a numbers game. If you annoy enough people, one of them will eventually submit.”
But that is dangerously naive and it’s losing you deals.
We are operating in an era of AI. Where the consumer has access to more data than you do. They don't need you to find the house; they need you to verify the decision. If your business model relies on interrupting strangers to beg for attention, you are fighting a mathematical war you cannot win.
So, let’s talk about how to stop chasing ghosts and build a system where the phone rings for you.
Well, let’s look at the data, because the discrepancy is actually offensive.
Industry data consistently shows that "cold" outbound leads (cold calling, door knocking, cold DMs) convert at roughly 1% to 3%.
And that’s if you’re good.
That means for every 100 people you harass, 99 of them hate you, and one might buy a condo in six months.
But warm inbound leads? They convert between 10% and 15%.
And for AI search... it's over 50%*.
That's 15 homeowners coming to you saying ‘I found you online, I’d love to talk about you listing my home’ potentially every month.
When a lead comes to you—because they read your newsletter, saw your YouTube video, or found your answer on Reddit—they have already "consumed" your expertise. It takes 12 content interactions before anybody makes a decision on which realtor to work with.
With inbound leads the trust barrier is gone. You aren't selling yourself anymore; you're just facilitating the transaction.
*based on data we have from working with 75+ agents across the country.
The difference isn't just conversion rate; it's psychological framing.
A cold prospect views you as a commodity. To them, you are a "salesperson" trying to extract a commission. They are guarded, skeptical, and price-sensitive.They will grind you down on your commission percentage because they don't see your unique value. They just see a transaction fee.
A warm prospect views you as an authority.
They’ve already consumed your content or gotten free value from you.
To them, you are the "expert" who solved their problem before they even met you. They are open, cooperative, and value-insensitive.
They don't ask you to cut your commission because they believe you are the only one who can get the job done.
Cold prospects require persuasion. Warm prospects require onboarding and nurturing.
Most agents fail at inbound because they treat it like a lottery ticket. They post once and wait. To generate actual inbound appointments, you need to build growth engines—systems that leverage specific algorithmic behaviors to put your content in front of people at the right time and on the right platform.
AI search is producing multi-million dollar deals for real estate agents all over the country. How do I know this? Most of them are our clients.
Users no longer need to conduct 20 different searches, across 10 different agent websites on Google. They have one continuous conversation with an AI assistant who prequalifies them for you.
AI SEO is about three things:
Right now, AI doesn't know who you are, and it won't recommend you. You need to train the AI models to recognize you as the authority. It’s easier than traditional SEO but still, it’s not as simple as putting yourself as the best agent in your market on a single blog post.
(That is actual SEO advice I’ve seen online from a real estate influencer.)
Your content needs to be specific and steeped in local knowledge. Alongside that, you need to, at every opportunity, validate your sales history, the size of your team, the areas you serve and the types of homes you sell.
I have a full AI masterclass you can download but at a top level, you need these page types:
40% of Gen Z prefers searching on AI over Google. Homebuyers now trust AI more than they trust a real estate agent. If that doesn’t scream out to you ‘okay, I should try getting leads from AI search’, I don’t know what till.
But… It takes time to build. Roughly 6 months of work to see real inbound appointments from AI. That’s because of nothing other than a) LLMs don’t trust you and b) the market has seasons (as you well know).
The thing is though, once you’re being recommended as the best agent in your area, your inbound leads compound. Unlike cold outreach which is consistently output driven.
Reddit is the new Google.
Google recently signed a $60M/year deal with Reddit to access their data API. This means Google is aggressively prioritizing Reddit threads in search results to satisfy "human" queries. If you search "Moving to [City]" right now, I guarantee a Reddit thread is in the top 3 results (along with Facebook which we’ll get onto next).
Reddit is also the #1 cited website in AI search so, it makes sense to be there because your leads are there.
Reddit has a Domain Authority of 90+. If you start a subreddit, and consistently post local threads that get engagement, you will have a platform that competes with (and beats) Zillow.
Why this works as a lead generation strategy for agents:
The biggest benefit is, as the moderator, you control the sidebar (the "About" section). Place links to your "Relocation Guide," your "Vendor List," and your "Calendly" right there.
Agents can build unlimited leads if they’re willing to put in the work.
Do not post your listings. Post market updates, answer questions about schools, and ban other agents who spam. Your job is to continue to provide value to a community of people who will likely (at some stage) need a realtor.
Don’t believe me that this is a profitable source of leads?
Add "Reddit" to the end of any real estate search query. You will see millions of search results.
The demand for "human" answers is at an all-time high.
It’ll take between 3–6 months to build community traction organically. But you need distribution. Share it amongst your email database, your old leads and cross-promote on other platforms.
This is the legacy version of the Subreddit strategy, but it captures the 40+ demographic that holds the most home equity.
And Facebook is now heavily being cited in AI overviews, AI mode and ChatGPT results.
Facebook’s algorithm has killed "Page" reach (now <2%). But "Group" reach is still prioritized because it keeps users on the app. By owning the Group, you own the notification bar of your members.
(You win twice with Facebook. Once when someone uses Facebook’s native search bar and secondly, when your group gets cited by AI models.)
Name the group "[City] Community Connect" or "[City] Parents & Schools." Never put "Real Estate" in the title; people join groups for utility, not to be sold to.
To capture leads (and prequalify bad fits for your group) sse the "Membership Questions" feature.
Spend 90% of your time responding to posts from your members. The other 10% you can DM them privately with a follow up with ‘additional resources’ which just happen to be blogs on your website.
Don’t shill listings. Offer only value and you’ll build trust.
In 3 months you could have 1,000 members if you seed it with local ads ($5/day).
The cost per lead is effectively zero once the group is self-sustaining.
I love organic content, but waiting for the algorithm to bless you is a fool’s errand. This method uses money to guarantee distribution of your best assets.
You use organic performance as a "signal" to determine what to put ad spend behind. You are buying certainty. You’re saying ‘here’s my best content, now put it in the right hands’.
It’s not paid advertising. There’s no direct response needed here. You’re building brand awareness with homeowners (in hopes they later become leads).
And because you’re not asking for a sale, the costs are inexpensive on Meta, YouTube and Reddit.
Post 5 Reels/Shorts a week. Don't overthink them. Just market updates or property tours.
Identify the one video that got 20% more watch time/shares than the others. That is your winner.
Go to Ads Manager. Run a "Video Views" campaign (ThruPlay) targeting your city + 15 miles.
Put $50 behind it. You’ll start to regularly build brand advocacy, inbound leads and sales. All because you did the opposite of what you’re told to do: which is sell.
The best thing about this is you can start generating traffic today.
Short-form video is for awareness; long-form content is for conversion. No one sells a $1M house because of a 15-second dance.
Long-form (YouTube/Podcasts) creates para-social relationships. The viewer spends hours with you. By the time they call, they feel they know you. They trust you.
And agents across the country are making millions of dollars with less than 5,000 subscribers. This is not a numbers game. We personally work with an agent who did $60m worth of listings solely through YouTube in 2025.
I’d imagine 2026 would be even better for inbound leads on YouTube.
The topics you should cover in your YouTube videos to attract leads:
Every video description must have links to ways people can convert with you. Your website, your socials, your Calendly link… YouTube is a platform to get traffic. That traffic needs to go somewhere of value.
YouTube is the second largest search engine in the world. Real estate queries are high-intent.
But, again, this is a long game. The "Flywheel" takes time to spin. But if in 18 months you’ve booked $2m worth of listings from a single inbound channel, well, you’d be pretty happy.
Buyers in 2026 are researching outcomes, not features. They aren't searching for a "3 bedroom house" (Zillow does that). They are searching for lifestyle assurance.
To catch them, you must move upstream.
Create content and resources that address the lifestyle friction before the transaction.
If you help them solve the logistical nightmare of moving or financing, you earn the right to help them buy the house. You need to be the consultant first, and the realtor second.
Sellers are a different animal. They don't care about lifestyle; they care about asset valuation and net proceeds.
Warm seller leads come from data authority and transparency.
Sellers want to know you are a shark. Show them your teeth through data.
Siiiiigh. This is the part where every agent says ‘I don’t have time for that. I’d rather spend my dollars with Zillow’.
Well, how’s that working out for you? Less profit for you. Stricter conversion commitments. You don’t own a real estate business when Zillow is your only pipeline for leads.
It is a compound interest curve.
Months 1-3: You are creating content and building infrastructure. You will get zero leads. You will feel stupid. Most agents quit here.
Months 4-6: You will get a comment here, a DM there. The algorithm is learning who you are. You likely would’ve started to receive your first calls from AI search.
Months 6-12: Old videos start resurfacing. Your subreddit gains critical mass. Your Facebook group has 2,000 members. You’re generating thousands of visits from AI search every month.
This is where your business becomes a business and not a machine that solely relies on outbound lead generation to grow.
If you stop at Month 3, you wasted your time. Inbound is not a faucet you turn on; it is a garden you grow.
Yes, but you have a deficit of "Proof," so you must substitute it with "Effort."
You don't have a track record of sales to show off? Fine. Show off your research.
"I toured 50 open houses this month, and here is what I learned about the current state of the market."
You can borrow authority by being the hardest working reporter in the field. A new agent actually has an advantage here: Time. You have the time to make the videos, moderate the subreddit, build a Facebook group and learn your community.
The era of "interruption marketing" is dying. The privacy updates on iOS and the rise of AI Search are making it harder and harder to buy your way into someone's attention span.
You have a choice.
You can keep renting your audience from Zillow or paid ads.
Or, you can build your own Discovery Engine. You can build the assets—the videos, the articles, the communities—that will generate you leads in slow markets, in scarcity, in every possible downturn you can think of.
It is harder work. It takes longer.
But the leads actually pick up the phone.
Not everyone is going to make it through this pivot. Some agents will still be cold calling in 2030, wondering why no one answers.
But those of us who build the engines now? We won't have to chase anyone.